What if the secret to freedom wasn’t in a flashy startup or the next big trend… but in notes? In this power-packed, soul-stirring episode, Kimberly Spencer sits down with note investor, wealth coach, and absolute powerhouse Hànanda Whittingham, who shares her jaw-dropping journey from walking away with just $162 to multiplying her net worth by 1,000% in five years. Yup—Queen didn’t just survive, she THRIVED.

But this convo is about more than money. It’s about integrity as your north star, why visibility is both a business strategy and a personal revolution, and how your story doesn’t need everyone’s permission—just your power.

Hànanda unpacks how note investing creates real safety for women—like, the kind of safety that lets you walk away from toxic jobs, relationships, or anything that dims your light. She shares the heart-wrenching story that sparked her mission and how she helps women step into their role as first lien holders—aka financial QUEENS.

If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by fear, unsure what to share, or stuck in a cycle of “meh” mediocrity, this episode is your invitation to rise. This is not just a conversation—it’s a transformational transmission for every woman who’s ready to own her wealth, her worth, and her damn crown.

 

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Connect with Hànanda Whittingham.

 

Website: https://www.successfulnotesolutions.com/

Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@successfulnotesolutions9411

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hanandamoves/

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/h%C3%A0nandawhittingham/

 

Enjoy, sovereigns!

 

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Setting the Stage: Integrity, Visibility, and Wealth

When you think of those things that maybe you want to share but are blocked or like get that

analysis paralysis on, are those typically a you thing like you're recognizing your own shame or

your own guilt? Or are those like, I'm going to be saying something that could affect somebody

else's life? Definitely the latter. Yeah. So that that's a really great clarification and

distinction that whenever it gets into things about my life and parts of my life that I've shared

with other people, that's whenever it starts to feel tricky and like, can I massage this enough that

it's still true and accurate and does not potentially do harm to someone else? Before we dive in,

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Communication Queens podcast for the visionary leaders, speakers, service providers, and podcasters

who are looking to stand out sharing their story. I'm your host, Kimberly Spencer, former

screenwriter turned master communications coach. On this podcast, I'll be coaching you on how to

share your own transformation story so that you increase your visibility, influence, and income on

podcast interviews. Let's get your voice heard.

From $162 to 1,000% Net Worth: Amanda's Financial Awakening

Ananda, welcome to the communication Queen podcast. Like I know we can dive into all things note

investing, bringing forth real wealth and transformation since you have transformed your life quite

substantially from walking away from everything with 160 bucks in your pocket to increasing your net

worth by 1,000% in five years, you badass. And it sounds so good when you say it. You know, it's so

funny with podcast interviews I've had that happen, like when I first started going on a lot of

interviews and I would have my bio read back. I'd be like, damn, I am pretty awesome. And it also

requires me to take a deep breath. Yeah, I mean, you've had such a transformation and only now are

you starting to really show up very visibly online on social media, putting yourself out there,

what's been this shift in your visibility strategy? Is it just a business strategy or is it part

visibility business, part personal development?

The Visibility Shift: From Analysis Paralysis to Alignment

I think that's a fantastic question, and it really is both. I think part of me recognizes that for

my business, people can't find me if I don't show up like I am. They can't find me if I don't show

1. So that's part of the equation. But I have really found that I had so much resistance to showing

up publicly for. Parts of my story that didn't feel comfortable with or just being seen. I grew up

in the generation of other young southern women who don't speak into your spoken to. And learning

humility was an important quality. All of those things were really set me back. And I also

recognized that to heal some of those things and break out of that conditioning, I just have to feel

the fear and do it anyway. And yet you guys follow. You're a follow Miss Congeniality. I love that.

Pageants, Presentation, and Personal Power

So the thing that I found was beauty pageants, because it's very rare that I get to speak to anyone

else who's been in the beauty pageant. I found them to be very liberating and also terrifying,

because that interview question that's out of nowhere, that's like, you know, suddenly all that that

you have is only who you are and only what you have up here in your brain. And some things are the

questions are just random and out of the blue because it's like about world events. And if you're

not informed on those, it's good luck. Um, but smile big did did beauty pageants in any way have a

beneficial, uh, outcome for you for learning your voice? Not so much about learning my voice, but

more about like, how to show up. I mean, I learned a lot about presentation and comportment, for

sure, and also the willingness to be seen even under a really almost false narrative of the beauty

pageant. But for me, it was really wanting to feel I wanted valid. I definitely wanted validation,

and I didn't know that at the time. You know, I was 14, 15 and 16. I wanted validation. I wanted a

sense of security, I wanted approval. And so for me, the beauty pageant, like I loved getting things

like Miss Scholastic and Miss Congeniality probably more than I enjoyed winning first place or the

main Crown, because that actually felt less hollow to me than the hollow victory of great. I got the

pat on the back. I got the fantastic crown. I look great in pictures. So those were more of a hollow

victory. That didn't really solve the problem of me seeking security from other people. Mhm. I think

that that's such a poignant point. I too found much more validation. Or self-affirmation, I would

say with the Miss Congeniality and winning certain specific awards for my actual achievements,

rather than seven random humans judging me and saying that I should be, you know, the one who holds

the title. That's actually why I named my my coaching business Crown Yourself was because I was

like, I realized I didn't need their validation in order to put a crown on my head. That's

fantastic. And like, if you ever see pictures of my parents, my parents are gorgeous. Like, I have

nothing to do with how I have very little to do with how I look. My parents are just gorgeous people

and like, this is just everything else is just a side effect. Except for the things that I've worked

for and earned and created myself. Yeah. So I speaking of earning, like I know that earning and

integrity I found they go very much hand in hand. And I know you and I very much share that. But

that integrity is such a high value for both of us. And like, how is showing up and showing parts of

you and also choosing to keep certain parts of you private, like where is the dance with your own

integrity with that? This is that's actually one of the biggest things that stops me from showing

up, or what's stopping me from showing up. And I still get whenever I'm creating content, this

analysis paralysis around that, because I do like integrity for me, is simply, am I in alignment in

my thoughts, my words, and my deeds from the inside out? Am I who am I being who I say I am?

Integrity is a huge thing. And then if I want to, if I only want to focus on some aspects, how I do

that, can I still do that and be in integrity for me, can create a real honestly, at times a real

battle. And that's something I have. Again, I do get analysis paralysis around that. Yeah. I think

for me, one of the one of the things I found is there are just certain clear lines of like what I

will and will not share. And like, I'm I'm very open, obviously, about being a mother and having

young kids. And there's some really funny things, but also really hard things that come with young

kids and toeing the line that like kids are not necessarily content, but they definitely are a part

of my life. And looking at how can I present my kids? Because there are some things that I've seen

online that I'm like, your children are going to hate you in ten years. Like for showing videos of

their kid like partying on camera or, you know, just going to the bar, I'm like, that's your child.

Like you are literally putting that out there for the world to see. And I would never want to put my

child in a position where I put something out that's congruent for me, but not actually an integrity

with them. And so, like, there's boundaries that I have around, like what I share around what my

kids are going through and with who I share those with and how I share what I learn from those

experiences so that it's from the vein of my perspective, but it's not. Anything that's that could

be that they could look back and be like, oh, I really wish mom hadn't shared that about me. Um,

but. And I hope I toe that line. Well, I think I do, but that's where my integrity boundaries are

1. Like, typically if it's involving somebody else that that's that's where I'm like, okay, how can

I gracefully share from my perspective? When, when you think of those things that maybe you want to

share but are blocked or like get that analysis paralysis on, are those typically a you thing like

you're recognizing your own shame or your own guilt? Or are those like, I'm going to be saying

something that could affect somebody else's life? Definitely the latter. Yeah. So that that's a

really great clarification and distinction that whenever it gets into things about my life and parts

of my life that have I've shared with other people, that's when it starts to feel tricky and like,

can I massage this enough that it's still true and accurate and does not potentially do harm to

someone else? And that's the the line that I find I steered to more a mission than And take in more

time to figure out how to do that better. Yeah, I, I think that in that space, that's such a great

space to navigate in, in terms of respecting other people's privacy. Like, I know that for me, I had

definitely had boundaries around my father, around like what I would share while he was alive and

what I said that I, I also had his permission to share certain things once he'd passed. Um, and I

asked my mom for permission as well. Not that I really needed it, but she was like, your father

would have wanted you to share certain things about her past, my past, and certain childhood abuses

that I experienced. But for example, when it comes to my ex, like I share more from the perspective

of like my both my ex husband and my ex business partner. I share from the perspective of what I

learned from those situations, rather than sharing on interviews about like what they did. I think

when we point the finger of blame and we label something as like, oh, they're a narcissist or

they're abusive, or like, that's a delicate line to tell, especially. And this is what I've known

from having coached and work with women and had clients and who have been through domestic violence

situations, like there is a very real presence that your safety, first and foremost comes first. I

think that that is so I think that that's a great way to craft around that. And that's something

that I think I've definitely played with. And for me, it is that sense of like there's there's a lot

more that I probably would share openly about my life experiences whenever my parents are no longer

on the planet. You know, I am their native girl. I am single on the planet, and I don't want them to

worry about me. Yeah, yeah, worry about me. I've got, you know, I'm doing okay, but I think that,

yeah, they might become alarmed at some of my life experiences and I'd rather avoid that. I just

shocked my mom and put it into a movie. Maybe that'll be her second project. Yeah. I think it's, um.

It's so great that you have this level of honor in what you do and in respect that you have for

others. I think that that is what makes you such a successful investor as well, is that you respect

others. You you treat others money and investments with incredible amount of respect. And it's these

values that are driving the success of your business that I also honestly think could drive the

success of your your great having greater visibility. Thank you for acknowledging that. And I will

say like I am a daddy's girl. And my gold standard for my investors is that if I wouldn't put it in

my dad's portfolio, I wouldn't put it in your portfolio. And that really is I am I am incredibly,

again, loyal, loyal, love, love and loyalty. Pardon me, integrity or my service or my top values. So

I in what I do in investing, I get to honor all of those qualities of me. And again, my dad gets to

be my gold standard. Like if I have to lower the bar, I wouldn't lower the bar for my dad ever. I

think that's such a powerful standard. So what are the stories that you've maybe in the past have

felt uncomfortable sharing that now you're at a space where you're like, I feel like I could share

this and not feel like there would be worry on your family's part or on anybody else's part of like,

are you okay? Did you like did you survive?

The Turning Point: Walking Away from Mediocrity

I have survived, and I have, I, I have I have had a fantastically active life with lots of

variables. And one thing that I am getting more honest about with myself, and I am starting to

acknowledge that I was in a mediocre marriage and I wasn't made for mediocrity. I seriously look at

1. I am not made for mediocrity, and I and this is where that part of navigating, like I accepted a

mediocre marriage. And the day that I realized that it was all just it was a literal, visceral

moment. I know that we're both sensational people. We really live into our senses. And I had a

visceral moment. I remember exactly where I was. I was on the dance floor at a retreat in Texas, and

I had this incredibly visceral moment of everything is just. It. That part was non-negotiable. I was

living in a very complex situation, and my husband was invited to come with me or not again. My then

husband and I figured we had a 5050 chance of survival, and I was really okay with that, or with

those odds and even just taking ownership of that for the first time out loud to anyone else is is a

novel and also incredibly powerful. So thank you for the question. You're very welcome. I think the

other piece of your story, that's so one of the things that I love about your your one sheet, your

bio, I know you've done our Do Your Deliverables masterclass. I know you are one of the first

readers of the book. Like you're like, I know you've got the book. So like I, I you've done such a

masterful job in how you present yourself with a level of specificity in your story. And so many

women who want to empower women financially don't do that. And yet your story just just being able

to say that you were able to walk away with everything from everything with 160, $162 in your pocket

and then increase your net worth by 1,000% in five years. That's incredible. And those are all very

specific numbers that you really leverage. Walk me through the story behind what happened and how

you were able to do that. Although my intuition in making better choices and everything else, I

would say it happened by accident. But you know that that's not the truth. I took a lot of risk, and

I was no longer like, if I can risk. I risked leaving everything behind with $160. 100. It was 662.

Well, look at our records. Just so I could be accurate in this conversation. And I love this. Like,

I really do respect and love the specificity of $162. When I first started my coaching business, I

was like, I made no money for a year. And I was like, no. I first and then checked. I was like, I

made $15, but I'm not sure if it was my own self buying my own program because I didn't know how to

test my my checkout page worked so hard, and then I was like, no, I did have one coaching client

that was a a $100 a month, so I did make $100 in my first year. It wasn't zero, it was 115. And 15

of those dollars might have been my. Get tested and. Yeah, so I, I got, uh, I applied for my very

first job in the United States, and I got that job, and I was fired from that job within six months.

But that was the whole nother catalyst of change, really quite dynamic. And weirdly, for me,

dramatic. Lots of things came to a head from that and simply sheer perseverance. One I don't ever

spend more than I make. I think that that's a skill set that a lot of people have lost. Yes, that

means that I've made some really difficult choices to go without things that most people find they

wouldn't make the sacrifice. And I really paved the first five years of don't spend anything that

you don't have to. And I'm an experience person and I happen to be a minimalist, so that wasn't as

challenging as it might sound, but I did without a lot of things, and I made a lot of really tricky

choices. I chose to live for free. I also manifest a mansion for a year on a lake. So a combination

of true manifestation, working at anything that I could work at, not spending anything I didn't need

to spend, and looking for every opportunity to leverage every dollar that I could. I think one of

the things that I've seen more entrepreneurs struggle with than not is like once they start hitting

revenue numbers that they're, like, really impressed by. And then sometimes we have those seasons of

life where our revenue numbers get and the spending doesn't get adjusted for the revenue that's

actually being made versus the revenue that you know, that you can make. And I've seen this happen

with fitness. I've seen it with like people's bodies where they're like, they know they can eat a

ton of calories because they're training for a marathon. I did this myself. And then suddenly it's

like, oh, I'm no longer training for a marathon. I probably shouldn't be eating 400 more calories

per day. Uh, so there's that that. How were you able to, like, what is your financial practice that

you put into place so that when revenue fluctuates, you're able to make those very fast adaptations

that I think this is a necessary skill for any entrepreneur entrepreneur to know. I have my practice

is that I buy myself one treat, and that treat might be a really fantastic meal out, or it might be

a pair of cowboy boots or an infrared sauna. But I buy myself one treat and then after that,

everything. I might buy one investment. And then after that, everything goes back into the business

or into an investment. And so I just I don't change my lifestyle. My budget doesn't change, but I

give myself one reward. I mean, you know, I'm 55. So my I recognize that my runway to create the

kind of financial impact that I want is shorter than it was 30 years ago. So I really have to I

really consider that I'm laying down low to tracks so I can have the life, that my life can be

easier, and I can eventually not have to do all the things that I do right now. But I definitely

have the end game in mind. And again, I just don't change my budget. And I do live by a budget.

That's a lesson that most entrepreneurs either need to learn or learn the hard way. Yeah,

definitely. You know that profit first mentality. I get the tree, I don't change my budget. I have

one business investment and then I make person everything else goes back into a personal investment.

Mhm.

Building Wealth with Note Investing

When you are supporting people in note investing walk us through what note investing is. And like

let's see if we can make it even sexier. Because I already think that investing is precisely because

one thing that I love about it is it gives for me to think about, you know, a little bit more about

my history than what we've shared here, that the sense of security and whether you think about

beauty pageants, uh, and the need for security or financial security. The thing I love about note

investing is that it does give me the financial security and the sense of safety, because I'm

helping women become first line holders, and in that they gather the or they inherit the rights of a

bank or a lender. And so for me, that sense of security gives me personally so much because of my

life experience. And then with those transferable rights, it means that the my women investors are

secure in nonpayment and they profit whenever there is payment. And what I love about that, again,

that sense of you get passive income. So it's a super easy investment to make. There's not a lot of

research to be done and you are simply becoming you're replacing the bank and becoming a first lien

landholder on a single family home that's been paying on a regular basis. And with that, you are

simply getting that monthly income. So if you've ever paid a mortgage, then now you're being paid

someone else's mortgage. Note and again, there's that paper behind it that says it's secure that in

the event of non-payment that you have legal recourse. How did you stumble upon note investing

compared to other forms of real estate investing or other forms of investing, and why? Why is this

the one that you're like, yes, I want to empower women to be able to make money and have an invest

in a life that they love. I stumbled upon it. So I had those first five years of just pure frugality

and hustle like and mindset and manifestation. Like, I was doing all of that. And that led me to

like, okay, well, I'm starting to figure out how to make enough money. So now I have money to

invest. Now that I'm investing, I want to go with I think real estate is a great avenue. And I grew

up with my dad, understood real estate and he had some investment properties. So for me, that just

made sense. And whenever I started to do that, I recognized that it didn't bring the sense of

security that I wanted, and it also recognized that it wasn't passive. You know, having a landlord,

having a tenant and having to manage through storms and non-payment whenever there's different legal

recourses, that's not nearly as severe. So basically, I figured out and dealing with contractors was

not part of my life language. It was work that I, I didn't have the skill set for, but it also

didn't make me feel safe and secure. And so through navigating in real estate, I actually went to a

three day real estate investing event. And the very last speaker that I heard happened to speak

about investing. And, you know, it's that time of the day. It's the last of the three day event, the

last speaker. Very few people are still left. And I still feel I feel like I've milked the event and

I haven't left with what I wanted. And it was that last speaker that talked about investing. I was

like, that is what I'm looking for. And it is simply the fact that I get a steady return. I get

monthly payments that I can literally bank on. For me that ticked all of the boxes. And with the

women that I work with. And I'd say that most women that I know have had some level of insecurity.

They feel like they are in a relationship or a home or a job that they don't have the security to or

safety to walk away from. And whenever you have insecurity in your finances and you have insecurity

in your life, for a lot of people, that leaves them to paralysis and some level of trauma. So

removing one of those obstacles, I feel like I am really contributing to them. Not only their sense

of safety, but hopefully from that safety. And then they're able to find freedom. And that's where I

think women thrive, is when they have the freedom to walk away from the people, places and things

that no longer serve them. I would say that is right. There is the core of your message because I've

never heard it explained like, and I've talked to a lot of investors in the past. My husband needs

to do real estate investing. We have our own real estate investments and like, but the way that you

frame it so eloquently, not only as a female investor. But the story of of safety and the loving

ness that comes with a you fund, as you've called it. When you're feeling sassy, I'm like, yeah, I'm

no longer tolerating this because I have I have certainty. I've. I've completed Maslow's hierarchy,

like the base foundation of Maslow's Hierarchy of needs. And that foundation is so critical. And I

think that as business owners and as entrepreneurs, especially for so many people who who tolerate a

level of risk, like I know that I definitely have taken on more, more risk than, than most would be

comfortable with. However, there is a need, and I agree with you of that, that the trauma response

that comes from relational insecurity, job insecurity and financial insecurity that leads to like

just complete paralysis and a generation, a generational problem for women specifically of like not

being able to get out of the systems that have kept the stock, aka patriarchy. And so being able to

break free of that, I think that your voice and your message and how you frame that so brilliantly,

correlating financial trauma or trauma in general and trauma responses to financial insecurity is is

literally a message that I have not heard, phrased exactly how you have been able to phrase it here.

I think that that is one of your greatest assets in messaging to move forward on more podcasts that

that that piece right there, because you've been there, you've been in that trauma place. Thank you.

That's that's fantastic. And that's fantastic feedback. And it really was like I found out investing

was successful for me. And I was toying with the idea of it being my business. And can I do we have

a few more minutes on this story about why this is now a business? So I, I help open a yoga studio

during the middle of Covid, because who else does that while everybody else is closing down the

studio during the middle of Covid and the very last day that I'm teaching, I, I, I was the lead

teacher, the trainer, I was the person who opened the studio. We are a year in, we are successful,

we're growing, and we feel this amazing community and it is legit. My last class and I've had a

miscommunication with my coffee date, which was a fellow teacher and student, and I'm there in my

last class and there's this lady I've seen in several classes, but we've never gone out to coffee or

anything, and she is hanging around the studio and I said, hey. Do you want to go for a coffee? And

she's like, yeah. And we go to a coffee shop just a couple of doors down from the yoga studio. And I

get, I, I know that she is very attentive on her yoga mat, but I don't know anything about her. And

very seemingly with great ease. I'm going to actually take that back. That's not true. Um. She tells

her story, unfolds about she is with her husband and their kids. He's cheated on her. She doesn't.

She doesn't have any security. And he's threatened that if she leaves, she he will take the kids.

He's got the money, the power and the clout to make that a true statement. And during the course of

this conversation, and this all comes out over a cup of coffee, you know, after practice. I'm not

expecting any of this, but I used to also be a counselor, so I'm also not surprised. And I've heard

this story many, many other times. Then she goes on to recognize that her mother or share with me,

rather that her mother was in exactly the same position and her mother chose to take her life. I can

only listen and be there and offer support. And I walk out of that meeting and I'm like, you know,

I'm incredibly visceral experience. I remember exactly where I am, and I lean on my car and I didn't

bang my car's little lid, and I reckon I was like, this is why this needs to be a business. I've

heard this story from countless other women who, whether it's a marriage or some other relationship

that they want to leave. I've even, as a counselor, a toxic home full of mold that they didn't have

the resources to walk away from. And there's like, this is the why behind your business. And then

from then I was like, I am really committed to making this not just about my own personal success,

but how can more women step into their power, of their financial power and their financial freedom?

I think that whenever women have money, they have choices. And generally speaking, we do great

things when we have choices. Yeah, yeah.

Generational Trauma, Literacy, and Legacy

And I think that that mission behind it, like, thank you for sharing that story because I think that

that. Leading with that story in any show that you go on brings in so much heart and also fear,

because I too have known the women who have left with them, you know nothing in their pockets and

who are going through situations and relationships that, gosh, just just the other day, I walked

into the kitchen and I gave spike the biggest hug and I was like, thank you for not being an

asshole. Because I met another woman who shared with me another story about just being with a total

douchebag and how she now has to provide for her single like her daughter, because her husband

decided to make some other choices. And that experience alone is just like it's heart wrenching for

me when women have been deprived of a financial literacy. I think intentionally, because when we do

understand finances, we can be really freaking good at finances. I turned around a cash flow problem

in 45 days and I was like, boom! But that that happens only because I knew what I was doing and I

knew myself, I trusted myself, I backed myself, and so many women don't trust themselves with money.

So I think it's imperative that you go on more podcasts. It's imperative that you share your story

and that you overcome this analysis paralysis in any way, shape or form and just keep on sharing

those two stories alone. Your own personal story and the story of the origins of your business.

Because. Those two stories alone. You're going to go on multiple podcasts and you're going to think,

oh, they've heard this before. No they haven't. They you're speaking to a different audience every

single time you've heard yourself say it before. But for the most part, most of your audience will

not know that story, especially if you're going on other people's shows. And so by you sharing just

those two stories, I'm immediately connected. I'm like, I'm like, take my money. Like, let's go. Do

you have an initiative as well like to give back to these women? Like how do we how do we help more

women? Like, that's it's it's I feel the calling from your story and that is, is is so powerful that

I don't think you need to try to find and dig and try to find multiple stories. I mean, you'll find

more stories as you go along and as you're, you know, sharing more stories of clients and whatnot

and success stories. And as more people come to you and you have more conversations with women in

the real estate investing world, but I think just in general, like just those two stories alone, you

lead with those two. You're golden. Thank you. Thank you. I feel such relief. I'm glad I could

provide you with relief. That's good. Can you. You know, you've seen my win sheet, and there's.

There is a lot there. And you've just made this process really easy. And the fact that the sense of

clarity, like I am incredibly driven, uh, I am incredibly driven to help other people. And thank you

for picking out those couple of aspects. That's, I think, the biggest thing that people trip up on,

especially with their one sheet and with speaking in general, is thinking it's about themselves. And

I'm not saying that this is you, but I think so often it's very easy for us to make the story about

ourselves. And you so clearly outline in the stories that you've shared that both you leaving the

mediocre marriage of and leaving and finding your like having for years until you stumbled upon

investing and suddenly like you're like, oh, this took off. Um, and then the origin story of your

business, like those two stories alone pave the way for the Y like that. That is the why. And it

thus it's no longer about you. It's just about you getting to be of service. Which I know is your

love language anyway. Oh, thank you. And thank you for pulling the strings together. Is it?

Visibility, Worth, and the New Edge of Healing

I find it incredibly vulnerable. I am weirdly an introvert and talking to most people don't believe

that I'm an incredibly energetic introvert. And same here. And the people I think, yeah, even

talking about myself, it's just not. Part of what I do. And funny, I heard a friend of mine say

something about me the other day. Somebody who does know me fairly well, and she probably doesn't

know half of the stuff that we've spoken about because it's just not a part of our relationship. And

somebody asked me in front of her and tell me about yourself. And I was like, I don't really have

anything to say. My friend's jaw dropped over and she's like, you're so interesting. You're the most

interesting person I know. Your life has been fascinating. And I was genuinely shocked. I was

shocked, maybe not, but definitely surprised. I thought it was hilarious. Um, I'm just not coming.

I'm not used to coming from that place of talking about me. I find that it's very interesting, as

people get more visible in their businesses, that suddenly, even if worth and wealth is something

that you've healed, it's now that worth piece gets to come into a whole new realm of healing when

the spotlight is on you. I am doing my best not to cry or cackle. It's it's and it's interesting

that I see a lot of women because when I work with them, when I work with coaches as their business

coach, like women who have overcome something and maybe they're like a relationship coach or a

health coach, that they have these principles down and they've healed it in this area. But suddenly

when it comes to business or finances, it shows up again. And so you're just you're just a reverse

because you've already healed it in the, in the financial sector. And now it's just on the

visibility side. I that feels really accurate actually. Like I've gotten my stuff and my story

together around. How I create and contribute and then yeah, the visibility aspect. But the reality

is, is I can't help women if they can't find me. And that's what I have to just keep reminding

myself of is that if they can find me, I can't help them. Mhm. So again thank you for pulling the

strings together. You're welcome. You're welcome. It has been my pleasure to have you on.

Final Reflections & Where to Find Amanda

Amanda. How do we find you. How do we work with you. How do we learn about note investing and get

more information so we can make solid, safe financial decisions for ourselves and our future? Thank

you. I am in all the places LinkedIn is actually. I'm really dedicated right now, the last quarter

and being on LinkedIn more frequently. My goal is to increase my reach so I can increase other women

as wealth. And so LinkedIn is a great place. And as far as education, I would love for you to have a

look at my YouTube channel. There's loads of education on there about how to make great choices in

your notes, and I am. Always up for a virtual coffee. Get it? Queen. I love it. Ananda, I just adore

you. I think that you have the biggest heart. You have such a versatile background, and I know your

heart and your passion for serving and supporting women to really, truly build freedom. And also

with the little side of you from time to time when appropriate. Uh, with that, as always, know, my

fellow sovereigns that you have the your story has the power to save at least one life. So go out

there and be heard. Queen, if what you just heard stirred something in you. If you are imagining how

your voice, your story, your genius could be positioned with the same clarity and magnetism than

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